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Is it really the women who are avoiding marriage?

Do this experiment: go to a newspaper stand and look for magazines about weddings. Look for books about marriage. I have never ever seen one addressed to men (there are ones which seem to be, but on a quick glance I actually think they were written to feed the women's ego), which means IMHO that men wouldn't spend money on subjects like these. Meanwhile you sholdn't be surprised to find at least half a dozen for women. So I really really doubt that men are more willing to marry EITHER.

I would actually dare to say that men were (and still are) the ones who don't really care about marriage.



If someone likes marriage as a concept and a form of art, doesn't mean they want to be married themselves, now and with all the implications.

By analogy: many women enjoy and write slash stories about male homosexuality, which they obviously can't participate in. Same for wedding stories, dresses and shots.




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