I'm not sure if you're saying this as an argument for standardisation (ha, let's debate the spelling) or not, but these people will always find something, from frameworks to linting rules - the amount of discussion stays the same no matter how much is agreed
I'm not really arguing for one way or the other, just pointing out the reality of working with lots of people means lots of opinions on how to do things, so it's never that straightforward to get things done. It's just a fact of life.
And yeah, I've been in those long discussions too about frameworks and linting rules. It can often turn into just egos trying to win and less about doing what's right or expedient for the team.