Ive dated 2 girls with cats, both of them turned out to be very crazy. Cats are a deal breaker for me. Crazy cat lady isn't the exception, its the rule. The ladies will argue about this to no end, don't waste your time, they are crazy. I wish I could send this note back to myself 18 years ago.
I was tempted to mock your comment, but instead, out of a general wish for you to be happy even though I don't know you, I would really recommend that you expand the size of your study group.
I'm sure if you think about it you can find some other similarities between these two women that may account for their issues. For example, both of them were apparently attracted to you...