What had kept me on Ubuntu so far has been their out of box laptop support (I.e. WiFi drivers).
What I did not like was Firefox taking 20s to start.
https://packages.debian.org/bullseye/lxc
https://wiki.debian.org/LXD
https://bugs.debian.org/cgi-bin/bugreport.cgi?bug=768073
Not a heavy user though - maximum 15-20 VEs (virtual enforcements) per server.
What had kept me on Ubuntu so far has been their out of box laptop support (I.e. WiFi drivers).