There is a huge difference in values to be observed between an individual who is interested and one who is interesting.
Interesting people are tiresome to be around and very rarely productive. If all you ever do is try everything possible to be interesting, you're boring.
Interested people are a lot of fun and get the ball rolling on a lot of productive energy. If you take a great interest in others and pursue that interest, you make the group great.
Its really that simple. Next time you find yourself nodding off around someone, count the times in the conversation they took an interest, versus the moments they spent trying to be as interesting as possible. You may observe a big release of energy by spotting this factor ..
Interesting people are tiresome to be around and very rarely productive. If all you ever do is try everything possible to be interesting, you're boring.
Interested people are a lot of fun and get the ball rolling on a lot of productive energy. If you take a great interest in others and pursue that interest, you make the group great.
Its really that simple. Next time you find yourself nodding off around someone, count the times in the conversation they took an interest, versus the moments they spent trying to be as interesting as possible. You may observe a big release of energy by spotting this factor ..