I currently use a TrueNAS as my home server, and I'm sure whatever I replace it with will add HW for local inference and act as my Home Brain for various automations and assistants.
Funny enough, I know two separate groups of people doing that. One in an apartment in SF running a shared Wi-Fi network with VLANs so they don't step on each other's frequencies, and another group sharing WISP infrastructure in semi-rural Utah where they can't convince ISPs to lay fiber. (Although I think the second group now uses that as a backup for Starlink.)
Yes, UBNT nanobeam 5ac AC wireless[1] is pretty dirt cheap. Can get a pair for about $199 for a wireless P2P link that can work over several kilometers. I have deployed a number of these myself, along with more high bandwidth airFiber stuff.
There are different possible approaches here, but for me, the main benefit would be of having control over the model(s) used. Other than that, low latency would be crucial for effective voice interaction.