The difference, IMO, is that Bandit is constructively wacky. He's generally competent, unlike other shows where only the mother is competent.
It's honestly refreshing seeing the two parents in Bluey, because neither are being degraded and they have a good relationship and exhibit good teamwork.
I mean the guy is one of the world's top experts on concrete, that's hardly "useless"
and the "dad is the wacky one and mum handles organising" is a pretty common trope in other shows, such as... Bluey :)