No, we can't explain to you why our blub language should be preferred to your blub language. It's your job to make that determination on your own.
I can come back in 5 years to explain to you what is annoying about Akka.NET compared to the BEAM and vice versa. An expert in the BEAM who lacks experience in C# is not going to be able explain to an expert in C# who lacks experience in the BEAM why BEAM is better.
You're asking for something incredibly rare - a person who is an expert in both runtimes and can concisely explain to you the tradeoffs of each.
I can come back in 5 years to explain to you what is annoying about Akka.NET compared to the BEAM and vice versa. An expert in the BEAM who lacks experience in C# is not going to be able explain to an expert in C# who lacks experience in the BEAM why BEAM is better.
You're asking for something incredibly rare - a person who is an expert in both runtimes and can concisely explain to you the tradeoffs of each.