I'm mostly on board with what you're saying, but under such an interpretation of "forcing", people are never truly forced into anything. That puts it in fundamental conflict with the very existence of the word, i.e. renders it meaningless.
That said, I did also walk away from most mainstream platforms already, so it's not like I disapprove of the message necessarily. I did find it regrettable that the calculus worked out that way though, and I don't find it reasonable to deny that there is / was a calculus. You do give up on things that are not just the assholes. I'd definitely classify that as a force.
But maybe I'm just missing that this was supposed to be inspirational rather than literal, and mistook your words. I don't know.
