Could we have a 3rd option: "Quit whining"
I mean, really.
Although, you make a good point that it will drive unwanted people here...but there's nothing we can do about that unfortunately.
No,no, mistermann refers to people like myself, who've come from coding horror, and asking questions like "Excuse me, but, um, where are those Warez, dudes?", or who think PHP is a fine language, or, you know, people that embody the children that use to pick on you in school.
Well some of us might not want to just surrender like that.
And since this is the internet "whining" is pretty much all that can be done. That and continually moving on to the "new" place.