It's not about handouts. And you can have privilege in one domain and lack of privilege in others.
Are you a white male? The fact that you had a hard life doesn't negate the fact that you derive certains advantages from being white, and male.
You say you've had it hard. That's an absolute measure. Privilege is a relative measure. If you had had the same
circumstances, except you were black, your life would be hard-ER. A relative measure.
You should take a look at the linked privilege checklists. For each item that applies, ask yourself: would my life be hard-ER, in a relative sense, if this weren't true for me?
That's not my point. You cannot infer from the color of my skin how hard or easy my life has been.
What just happened was, someone commented that I have it easy because of my supposed white privilege. They simply just assumed I'm from a white middle class post-college family just because of my skin color.
Now if this was real life, and I worked at some nice company, now I have to fear people blaming my position and my state in life because of my privilege, when in reality it was me who struggled day and night with basic necessities to get to where I am today.
Nobody is denying that privilege exists in our little micro upper class bubble, which is my point exactly. Did some hiring manager have a better outlook on me when they first met me? Yeah probably, but that doesn't do shit for me if I can't back myself up with good work.
It's just such a dumb inane topic. I am now being discredited and disregarded because of "white privilege".
The benefits of being a white male in this society are negligible at BEST.
Despite commenting multiple times in this thread, you still do not seem to have looked at any of the privilege checklist, and you have not said that the privileges listed there do not apply to you or are not useful:
That's an article on white privilege. For numbers 1-50, would you make the claim that they either i. do not apply to you, OR ii. are of only marginal use, and you'd be fine with them not being true
Would you make that claim for all 50? Again, NO ONE is saying your lift hasn't been hard. Privilege is a relative claim. It can only make life harder or easier, not hard or easy.
I can't speak for the OP, but I'll give my own perspective.
Many of these items are nothing but restatements of "if I want to stick to my own (racial) kind, it helps to be in the majority." Since I have no particular desire to stick to my own (racial) kind, I'm fine with them not being true.
Of the remainder, I assert they are not a big deal. In a few days I'm travelling from a location where they are true (UK) to a location where they are not (India) and it was not a significant factor in my decision. I've devoted far more thought to things like the the weather, consistent running water or a gym than I have to anything on this list.
Are you a white male? The fact that you had a hard life doesn't negate the fact that you derive certains advantages from being white, and male.
You say you've had it hard. That's an absolute measure. Privilege is a relative measure. If you had had the same circumstances, except you were black, your life would be hard-ER. A relative measure.
You should take a look at the linked privilege checklists. For each item that applies, ask yourself: would my life be hard-ER, in a relative sense, if this weren't true for me?